Do You Still Pursue Your Spouse? Planning your Date Night

Renegade Calendar web graphic 2This week I am giving you some tips on managing your life and calendar the way God intended you to.

If you’ve been married for more than a year, you know that you’ve got to schedule time with your spouse.

We all pursued our spouses before we were married, and then we stopped pursuing them after we’re married. We call it “taking them for granted” – and I’m speaking to both men and women here – we ALL can take our spouses for granted from time to time.

But you want to continue the same kind of pursuit after marriage as before marriage. Just as you would pursue them in dating, you pursue them with a date night.

Then take some of that creativity that you use to plan worship services and use that to plan your date night. Creativity is important.

A little romance is important, and it does wane.  Romance tends to peak in couples in their 20s, and then it comes back later when couples are in their 60s. So let’s try to close that gap.

Part of having a date night is just intentionality.  You have to intentionally schedule this time.

You can also transfer this idea to time with your children and grandchildren.  But most importantly, you have to intentionally schedule this block of time with them.

In my new resource, The Renegade Pastor Calendar, I will teach you how to use this powerful calendar idea as an effective way to show your love, affection and priority for your spouse (and it even applies to your kids too – no matter their age).  In a way, I’m gonna remind you to ‘do what you once did’ but you’ll thank me (and so will your spouse!) later.  Click here for more information! 

Your partner in ministry,

Nelson

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About Nelson Searcy

Nelson Searcy is an experienced church growth strategist, pastor, church planter and coach, consulting with churches around the world. As founder of Church Leader Insights and the Renegade Pastors Network, he has personally trained more than 3,500 church leaders in over 45 denominations through live events, seminars and monthly coaching. Nelson is also the Founding and Lead Pastor of The Journey Church, with locations across New York City and in Boca Raton, FL. Nelson and his church routinely appear on lists such as “The 50 Most Influential Churches” and “The 25 Most Innovative Leaders.” He is the author of over 100 church growth resources and 18+ books, including The Renegade Pastor: Abandoning Average in Your Life, Ministry and The Difference Maker: Using Your Everyday Life for Eternal Impact, and At the Cross with the People Who Were There. He and his wife, Kelley, have one son, Alexander.

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