Why you should never use the “V” word

imgresHow do you view the new folks who come through your doors each week? If you’ve been referring to them as what I call the “V-word” (aka “visitor”) I strongly suggest you change your language and use the more welcoming word, GUEST.

“Visitor” implies an unwelcome drop-in or intrusion. But a first-time GUEST now demands more care and consideration in how you treat him or her and ultimately how you welcome and follow-up with your guest.

You can also use another “G-word” when talking about your guests – a GIFT from God. From this perspective, how you receive your guests takes on even more importance doesn’t it? In thinking through last week’s first-time guests, did you treat those gifts as they deserved to be treated by having a plan in place to integrate them into the life of your church? Or did you just say a quick thank-you and move on? Maybe you thought you did all you could to show your thanks.

Gifts from God are given freely − and strategically − and God expects us to handle what we’ve been given with the same strategic care. First-time guests are extraordinary gifts full of unparalleled potential. As God brings them through our front doors, our prayerfully planned reciprocation can result in changed lives for the Kingdom. To borrow a concept from the business world, God has set up the perfect win-win scenario. He is giving us the new faces. Our responsibility is to show our gratitude and commitment by doing our part to turn those new faces into new fully developing members.

This is why we focus so much on Assimilation. Assimilation leads to life transformation by giving people the means and opportunity to become maturing followers of Christ.

In broad terms, “assimilation” can be defined as the process used to encourage your first-time guests to continue coming back until they see and understand God’s power, accept Jesus as their Savior and commit themselves to the local church through membership.

At The Journey, we have made the crux of assimilation our mission: to give the people of New York City the best possible opportunity to become fully developing followers of Jesus Christ. We know, as I’m sure you do, that the majority of people who visit a church do not come to faith in Christ on their first visit − or their second or third. Instead, continued interaction with God’s people, teaching from the Bible and involvement in volunteer opportunities all work together to open unchurched hearts to the good news of Jesus Christ.

Your partner in ministry,

Nelson

pimgP.S. – What if you could keep at least one more first-time guest each week for the rest of the year?

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About Nelson Searcy

Nelson Searcy is an experienced church growth strategist, pastor, church planter and coach, consulting with churches around the world. As founder of Church Leader Insights and the Renegade Pastors Network, he has personally trained more than 3,500 church leaders in over 45 denominations through live events, seminars and monthly coaching. Nelson is also the Founding and Lead Pastor of The Journey Church, with locations across New York City and in Boca Raton, FL. Nelson and his church routinely appear on lists such as “The 50 Most Influential Churches” and “The 25 Most Innovative Leaders.” He is the author of over 100 church growth resources and 18+ books, including The Renegade Pastor: Abandoning Average in Your Life, Ministry and The Difference Maker: Using Your Everyday Life for Eternal Impact, and At the Cross with the People Who Were There. He and his wife, Kelley, have one son, Alexander.

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