The 3 Characteristics of a Generous Life

A generous life is characterized by three main things:

1. A willingness to stretch yourself.

Instead of giving the minimum tithe every year, you stretch yourself to take even larger steps of faith. What kind of giver does God want you to be? Is he stretching you to give 11 or 12 percent each year? Maybe even 15 or 20 percent? You should be willing and eager to set giving goals for yourself. Look at what you gave in the last year and say, “I gave X last year, so I am going to stretch myself to give X + Y this year.” In 2 Corinthians 9:7, Paul says, “You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.”

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2. A desire to be generous with others.

When you see need around you, you are quick to help. Rather than asking yourself, “Do I need to help that person?” you automatically give to his need. Being able to live in a place of quick generosity shows that you are controlling your money, not the other way around.

3. A decision to use your income fully to accomplish God’s purposes in the world.

Philemon 1:6 tells us, “You are generous because of your faith. And I am praying that you will really put your generosity to work, for in doing so you will come to an understanding of all the good things we can do for Christ.”

The only way to understand fully how you can use your life and your finances to honor God is to step up to the rung of peak-level giving. Second Corinthians 9:6 makes this promise: “Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously” (NIV).

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–Nelson Searcy and Jennifer Dykes Henson

The above excerpt is from pgs. 83-84 of The Generosity Ladder: Your Next Step to Financial Peace.

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About Nelson Searcy

Nelson Searcy is an experienced church planter, coach and church growth strategist, working with churches in over 45 denominations. Nelson is also the Founding and Lead Pastor of The Journey Church, with locations across New York City and in San Francisco and Boca Raton, FL. He first developed the Assimilation System 10 years ago at the Journey Church and has since implemented and improved these strategies with over 3,000 churches across all sizes and denominations. He started coaching pastors in 2006 and has personally coached over 2100+ senior pastors, helping them break common growth barriers like 125, 250, 500, 1000 and beyond, all while maintaining personal life and ministry balance. As founder of Church Leader Insights and the Renegade Pastors Network, he has trained more than 50,000 church leaders (3,000+ church planters). He is the author of over 85 church growth resources and 17+ books, including Fusion: Turning First-Time Guests Into Fully-Engaged Members of Your Church and The Renegade Pastor: Abandoning Average in Your Life and Ministry. His continued mission is to help church leaders around the world cooperate with God in creating healthy, thriving churches. Nelson is married to Kelley and together they have one son, Alexander.

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