I’m finishing up my “Lessons Learned from Dave” series of posts today. I’ve been passing along some of my best leadership learnings from Dave Ramsey. You can find the first 3 installments here, here, and here.

The fourth and final lesson is:

Evaluate WORK-LIFE BALANCE over the long haul

I meet a lot of church leaders who carry around guilt because of what they perceive as a lack of balance between “the ministry” and the rest of their life.

I found a great deal of wisdom in Dave’s approach to this sensitive and vitally important issue.

As I mentioned on Monday, Dave keeps an incredible schedule. In spite of that, he manages to maintain a strong and involved family life. How, you ask? By balancing his hard work with longer periods off.

He presses hard for a stretch, then takes some time off to be with his family. This is directly in line with the idea of “stress and release” that many of you have heard me talk about.

Dave pointed out that we have to be careful not to try to measure our Work-Life balance everyday. We should, instead, be intentional about measuring it every quarter, or even over the course of a year.

In other words, we don’t have to try to spend equal amounts of time at work and with the family every single day. That’s not a practical or realistic goal. There will be periods of time when we are heavily focused on one or the other, but our goal should be a healthy balance over time.

By focusing on maintaining a balanced lifestyle over the long term, you actually get more time with the family than trying to squeeze in a few minutes when you’re exhausted at the end of the day.

So, looking back over the last 6 months, how is your work-life balance? What are you going to do over the next 6 months to insure that you, your family, and your ministry all remain healthy?

He must manage his own family well, having children who respect and obey him. For if a man cannot manage his own household, how can he take care of God’s church?

1 Timothy 3:4-5

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About Nelson Searcy

Nelson Searcy is an experienced church growth strategist, pastor, church planter and coach, consulting with churches around the world. As founder of Church Leader Insights and the Renegade Pastors Network, he has personally trained more than 3,500 church leaders in over 45 denominations through live events, seminars and monthly coaching. Nelson is also the Founding and Lead Pastor of The Journey Church, with locations across New York City and in Boca Raton, FL. Nelson and his church routinely appear on lists such as “The 50 Most Influential Churches” and “The 25 Most Innovative Leaders.” He is the author of over 100 church growth resources and 18+ books, including The Renegade Pastor: Abandoning Average in Your Life, Ministry and The Difference Maker: Using Your Everyday Life for Eternal Impact, and At the Cross with the People Who Were There. He and his wife, Kelley, have one son, Alexander.